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What the dating press and forums are saying · updated
From the press
The Guardian, Dating ·

What does Olivia Colman's hot sex with a basket tell us about heteropessimism? | Emma Beddington

In Wicker, the love interest is a man made of plaited twigs. In romantasy, women are getting it on with goblins, elves, minotaurs and mothmen. Is this bad news for heterosexual men? Apologies if this…
The Guardian, Relationships ·

This is how we do it: ‘We don’t have penetration – but it’s by far the best sex I’ve ever had’

Penetrative sex is painful for Nina, but intimacy with Noah is fun, hot and loving • How do you do it? Share the story of your sex life, anonymously The mechanics of how we have sex don’t matter to…
New York Times, Modern Love ·

‘I Miss Him So Much, but I’m Glad He’s With You’

At 20, I made a choice that shaped my baby’s entire life — and mine.
Global Dating Insights ·

Muzz Launches First Billboard Campaign in Mumbai

Muslim marriage app Muzz has launched its first billboard campaign in Mumbai, India. The campaign comes nearly 18 months after Source: Global Dating Insights
The Guardian, Dating ·

The moment I knew: He loved to travel, I had a fear of flying. I expected him to skol his beer and wish me well

On Danni Smith’s first date with Kev, she made a few disclosures and expected him to skol his beer and wish her well – but his response surprised her Find more stories from the moment I knew series…
The Guardian, Relationships ·

My phone thinks my boyfriend is my ‘best friend’. It’s not alone | Patrick Lenton

Being in a same-sex relationship can make you weirdly invisible. Queer identity shouldn’t be treated as abnormal My boyfriend and I invented a game on our recent trip to Italy. We called it…
New York Times, Modern Love ·

Tiny Love Stories: ‘Turn Off That Dirge!’

Modern Love in miniature, featuring reader-submitted stories of no more than 100 words.
Global Dating Insights ·

Friendship Apps Face Dating App Challenges as Ghosting Persists

Friendship apps are gaining popularity as more people turn to digital platforms to meet new friends. Bumble reports an 80% Source: Global Dating Insights
The Guardian, Dating ·

Is AI your new wingman? How chatbots are transforming dating

Almost 40% of British singles have used AI for romantic advice, from writing messages to assessing potential partners After Sam’s ex joked that her sister found him ugly, he turned to AI. Google…
The Guardian, Relationships ·

You be the judge: Should my girlfriend stop sending me 10-minute voice notes?

Elena records messages for Ayo because they’re often apart, but he would prefer a simple text or chat on the phone. Is he right to call her out? • Find out how to get a disagreement settled or become…
New York Times, Modern Love ·

How Jim Morrison’s Unthinkable Loss Led Him to the Top of Mount Everest

Jim Morrison set a world record. Enduring love made it possible.
Global Dating Insights ·

Info Edge Reports Growth in Jeevansathi and Aisle Matchmaking Businesses

Info Edge matchmaking revenue continued to grow in the second quarter ended 30 September 2026, with both Jeevansathi and Aisle Source: Global Dating Insights
The Guardian, Dating ·

Blind date: ‘He said: “If heaven is real, you’ll definitely be going there”, which might be the nicest thing anyone’s ever said to me’

Nelson, 41, who works in legal services, meets Louise, 37, who works in marketing What were you hoping for? Great company and wonderful conversation. Continue reading...
The Guardian, Relationships ·

G Flip and Chrishell Stause have broken up and like many in the queer community, I’m in mourning | Rebecca Shaw

Love may not be dead, but it’s had a difficult morning. As much as I’d like a full investigative report, I will instead be getting on with life, as they will In this current bummer of a world, we…
Global Dating Insights ·

InnerVue Brings Relationship Insight Technology to Dating and Matchmaking

InnerVue brings 360-degree feedback beyond the workplace, helping matchmakers and dating companies offer clients a new perspective on how they Source: Global Dating Insights
Global Dating Insights ·

UK Dating App Spending Rises 51% as Singles Face Higher Costs

New research from Barclays shows dating app spending has risen sharply over the past year, while rising costs are changing Source: Global Dating Insights
Global Dating Insights ·

Bumble’s Sale Puts Dating App Burnout and AI in the Spotlight

Bumble’s $1.3 billion sale marks a sharp decline from its roughly $14 billion valuation five years ago, as dating app Source: Global Dating Insights
Global Dating Insights ·

Tokyo Expands AI Matchmaking and Singles Events With ¥700 Million Budget

The Tokyo Metropolitan Government has allocated approximately ¥700 million ($4.4 million) to marriage support in fiscal 2026, more than double Source: Global Dating Insights
Global Dating Insights ·

Ditto Launches AI Friendship Matching With Bay Area Bestie

AI dating startup Ditto has launched Bay Area Bestie, a new service helping people find friends in San Francisco. The Source: Global Dating Insights
On the forums
I had something happen to me that completely changed my view of dating, and women
r/dating_advice · 233 · 99
44M Starting Again….Again Please tell me it can happen?
r/datingoverforty · 5 · 94
Single, but the thought of social events exhausts me. Anyone else in the same boat?
r/datingoverthirty · 90 · 36
Is it a red flag for an adult to not eat vegetables or drink water.
r/dating_advice · 494 · 637
Now I know what a burner phone feels like. From can't-live-without-it, to the trashcan.
r/datingoverforty · 232 · 108
Six months into dating, but he (36M) still talks about his future like I (34F) am not in it. Am I overthinking?
r/datingoverthirty · 184 · 175
Brunch dates are a game changer
r/dating_advice · 1038 · 126
Lateness, Rain, downhill 1st date
r/datingoverforty · 57 · 196
How to navigate dating while recently laid off and in a slow job market
r/datingoverthirty · 56 · 48
Guy I went on a date with is dating other people, which is fine but one of them reached out to me
r/dating_advice · 345 · 566
Is expecting someone to meet within 24–48 hours of matching the new normal in dating over 40?
r/datingoverforty · 279 · 585
I’m newly back in the dating scene and don’t know if this is a sign of low effort after going on a first date - help?
r/datingoverthirty · 69 · 123
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